How to chat up attractive girl making her center of the conversation?
Showing your open and friendly attitude is not always easy especially around women you’ve just acquainted. How do you bring topics to open conversation? How would you know which are her interests? A lot of guys seem to be the tongue-tied around girls, or at least quite introverted.
Showing shyness will send the wrong message to the opposite sex. You’ll seem uninterested to socializing or even having a casual acquaintances. So what is your solution? How to show your friendly and open character and send message that you want to be approached?
Tips
Is there a magic formula for relaxed outlook towards women?
A set of steps that will guarantee you success?
Perhaps. Examine this list and see if you think you have all the essential skills:
1. Learn to catch the other person talking about herself
2. Know how to make the other person to be the center of the conversation
3. Learn to be happy by yourself and express open and warm attitude.
So, let's evaluate all-important steps one by one!
1 Starting A Conversation - Get The Other Person Talking About Herself
If you’re about to initiate conversation with someone you don't know, try to get the other person talking about herself.
Most people like to talk about themselves and appreciate the opportunity to talk to someone who's interested in what they have to say. You have to look interested rather than a bored participant in the small-talk happening.
This isn't all that hard; most people are really quite interesting if you can get them talking about the right things.
2. Make The Other Person To Be The Center Of The Conversation
I’d suggest you to steer the conversation a bit toward yourself. After that, you can usually find something in common to talk about.
So what if the conversation leads you nowhere, you should just move on to something else. This method will bring you at least a new friend; but then, that’s all you were looking for anyway.
3. Learn To Be Happy By Yourself.
It's okay to do things with other people, but one should wipe out any thoughts of meeting other people, in order to take off pressure. Self-confidence is self-perpetuating. Showing boldness and relaxed attitude in communication with people is a very strong way to break the ice.
Do showing your open and friendly attitude around women makes you nervous and apprehensive? In a human nature is to go through a sense of anxiety for making themselves vulnerable around acquaintances, but you also have to find your way out. It's easier than you'd think to enforce your social skills.
